Does my wandering hand still find its way down to the small of your back?
I just want to watch your sun come over my hill one more time,
slower this time.
That time you told me I was hard, harsh I think you called it
the first time I’d ever been called that.
What is this heavy heart you speak of?
I can’t find it anywhere.
Not stuffed down the back of the bed,
not hidden behind the pickled radish on my shelf,
it’s not in my head,
my back pocket,
I’ve checked my room 3 times over for it.
Yet this heavy heart is hard to find when all I’m looking for is a hand to hold.
A knowing glance to share, across a room like Greta Gerwig described that time in Frances Ha.
You still wouldn’t watch it even if I asked,
politely refusing.
Too many may I’s and please’s and thank you’s
for a soft heart I found in mine.
I found it in the back of an uber pool, eating pizza with strangers
laughing at nothing in particular.
I found it in a mother and daughter shopping day,
wrapped in crepe, tied with a bow
in the white bag with pink ribbon handles.
I found it at 5:30 in the morning.
In frozen fingers,
in a shell at the bottom of the ocean.
This soft heart can survive in the harshest of conditions
not because it’s built for it
but because it must
at all costs.
It simply must.
I will never lose my soft, tender little heart
and if I do
I’ll know exactly where to look for it.
Part 2: After waking, before sleep.
The sound of the waves
feel like a second home,
away from it.
Looking at it backwards.
Only ours to know & yours to own.
Take it into your arms,
call it a name you find beautiful
or reminds you of your mother, or your mothers mother.
You can’t seem to run fast enough can you?
Talking at it,
around it
& to it.
Pouring sauce on it,
adding a little more vinegar to it.
Dancing around strangers living rooms
yet it feels like a second home,
away from it.
Closer than you thought,
just take the second exit on the left
it’ll take you right there
in no time.
To lose your sense of direction in an unfamiliar face,
caught on the bus to too far away.
Walking backwards towards where I thought I’d be.
I’m exactly between wherever that is and where I wanted to be.
It could be worse.
It could be home
or far from it,
it could be mine after all.
This time will be different.
I’ll take longer walks,
talk longer,
sit & ponder,
wonder,
wander,
find myself lost,
in my own internal little paradox.
No right answers left.
But you’d find a way
home,
or closer to it.